tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post2105402909792735828..comments2024-02-11T03:39:05.836-05:00Comments on still life with circles: musicstill life angiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-3641164903588646622023-04-18T07:42:20.192-04:002023-04-18T07:42:20.192-04:00This blog is really infomative and also if you wan...This blog is really infomative and also if you want more infmation on <a href="https://catalyicsecurity.com/" rel="nofollow"> Cybersecurity Services Provider </a> them this source is really helpfullcatalyicsecrityehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03542347107546323983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-54201862250431332562011-10-07T06:17:42.716-04:002011-10-07T06:17:42.716-04:00Sounds perfect. So wish I could have been there.
x...Sounds perfect. So wish I could have been there.<br />xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-23856528421815449222011-10-06T22:36:41.835-04:002011-10-06T22:36:41.835-04:00I would have loved to have gone to your party. &l...I would have loved to have gone to your party. <3JoyAndSorrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03923776278331956351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-12647446661638411952011-10-05T19:31:18.409-04:002011-10-05T19:31:18.409-04:00Why are all these amazing women on the EAST COAST?...Why are all these amazing women on the EAST COAST? I wish I could have come to your home and talk and eat and light candles. I was hoping to make some connections at support group but eh...noth'n...wish I could meet some of you amazing women in real life. It sounds like an amazing time, for no other reason than being around other mama's and families who "GET IT"Renelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08490888250385942221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-65950342819026287492011-10-05T09:07:55.370-04:002011-10-05T09:07:55.370-04:00Oh I wish I could have been there. Sounds like you...Oh I wish I could have been there. Sounds like you were an awesome hostess--next time!Mary Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12212750107782259674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-74609687292842252142011-10-05T08:12:01.913-04:002011-10-05T08:12:01.913-04:00I wish I could have been there. Well done Angie. ...I wish I could have been there. Well done Angie. Thankyou for all that you do and for putting all of our thoughts so easily and beautifully into words. xxSophiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17663682329663202706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-59326633046819392312011-10-05T01:26:37.055-04:002011-10-05T01:26:37.055-04:00Sounds lovely Angie. I love that you met together ...Sounds lovely Angie. I love that you met together and talked about all of your kids. I second all of the last few comments. Sorry we missed it.Josh Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07558455153152363458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-15111953970849413872011-10-04T16:01:14.050-04:002011-10-04T16:01:14.050-04:00So wish I had been able to be there!So wish I had been able to be there!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11426032293393714111noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-69348533809823831242011-10-04T14:42:51.812-04:002011-10-04T14:42:51.812-04:00With love, thank you for sharing!With love, thank you for sharing!Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03549547447249404443noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-53087041820442436172011-10-04T00:02:53.135-04:002011-10-04T00:02:53.135-04:00WE DO TOO!
Oh my what I would give to have my liv...WE DO TOO! <br />Oh my what I would give to have my living children interact with others in the way that you just described. <br />What a gift these friendships are.. ones we have formed on-line, and the fortunate few whom we have met in the flesh. <br />Little lifelines.. every one of them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-1541000427057795422011-10-03T21:11:33.696-04:002011-10-03T21:11:33.696-04:00It was truly a wonderful day- can't remember t...It was truly a wonderful day- can't remember the last time I laughed so hard with my heart so full.Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02673054313143096148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-26447117329851983072011-10-03T19:45:08.608-04:002011-10-03T19:45:08.608-04:00Oh to be surrounded by people who understand, soun...Oh to be surrounded by people who understand, sounds like an amazing time. Thank you for remembering my Hadley this month. Seeing her name here took my breath away.McKennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09299201553545817162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-20676501262800772182011-10-03T18:04:38.968-04:002011-10-03T18:04:38.968-04:00I wish I could have been there - in the early days...I wish I could have been there - in the early days, I longed to live in a dead baby commune with people who would yell, "We have a stillborn baby too."<br /><br />And this - "But she was a person with a smile and a light." - broke me. I forget that too sometimes.Fireflyforeverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15290560217994184778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-31610705972936277562011-10-03T16:57:39.317-04:002011-10-03T16:57:39.317-04:00What a beautiful post Angie. It's true ... all...What a beautiful post Angie. It's true ... all of it. I've gotten to meet a handful of BLM in real life and it is so easy. We talk about stuff, everyday things and if we cross into our dead babies the conversation flows into and back out of that realm without discomfort. There is a joy borne through our sadness. It is beautiful.<br /><br />I too smiled at the little one saying "We have a stillborn baby, too." I love the honesty found in kids. I remember walking with my neighbor and her daughter when her kid asked me "do you remember when you had a baby?" followed by "why did he die?". Their honesty is beautiful and refreshing.<br /><br />I missed being there and I hope you talked some serious smack about me!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03740847681453723883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-10526385975589627282011-10-03T15:34:55.813-04:002011-10-03T15:34:55.813-04:00Wish I had been able to be thereWish I had been able to be thereSarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03533706560591305512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-21734103126473076652011-10-03T14:59:10.328-04:002011-10-03T14:59:10.328-04:00It sounds absolutely wonderful, so . . . relaxing,...It sounds absolutely wonderful, so . . . relaxing, is a strange word to describe it, but I think you'll understand.Virginiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07965042538225388563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-67146123646243481302011-10-03T13:59:21.611-04:002011-10-03T13:59:21.611-04:00I find that you only need music when you have peop...I find that you only need music when you have people coming over that don't belong to the race that knows Joseph. When good people are over, no one ever stops talking. <br /><br />I love being around people who get it. Even if you never actually get around to talking about what you all get.HereWeGoAJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17457680345376171720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-34264287379787634072011-10-03T12:28:31.096-04:002011-10-03T12:28:31.096-04:00I'm so glad it was such a good gathering. I wa...I'm so glad it was such a good gathering. I was thinking of you and sending lots of love (and being a touch cranky about being on the opposite side of the country).<br /><br />I love that photo with the candles. It's so warm and comforting and lovely.ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347057746449071812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-34983167919056939852011-10-03T10:05:04.581-04:002011-10-03T10:05:04.581-04:00Yes, I know that excited feeling of connecting wit...Yes, I know that excited feeling of connecting with someone else who gets it, who gets the pain and love and the gratitude and the aching wistfulness. Oh I wish I could have been there, so I could have said thank you to you.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05946311309467296976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-52593107132666362011-10-03T09:49:21.120-04:002011-10-03T09:49:21.120-04:00I loved "We have a stillborn baby, too!!"...I loved "We have a stillborn baby, too!!" The closest we came to this was at my husband's grandmother's funeral. The pastor was reading who preceded Marion in her death and mentioned her infant great-grandson Henrick. My then 5 year old daughter got the biggest smile and shouted, 'HEY THAT'S MY BROTHER!'. It was the first time she heard anyone say his name like that in public, and she was so proud.<br /><br />Your open house sounds like it was a wonderful gathering. Makes me want to organize something with the ladies from our old support group.<br /><br />Thank you for a beautiful post. This was a great read to start the work week.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11393847636501599146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-22736189105201914642011-10-03T09:22:15.600-04:002011-10-03T09:22:15.600-04:00I so wish I lived nearby; the day sounded lovely a...I so wish I lived nearby; the day sounded lovely and warm. Sending love. xoMoniquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04188684792415196300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-33559648402198688732011-10-03T08:35:29.576-04:002011-10-03T08:35:29.576-04:00Sounds like a wonderful time; wish I could have b...Sounds like a wonderful time; wish I could have been there! Your description reminded me of support group events where we've met up with our longtime friends from the group. I know the moms get a special kick out of seeing their kids playing together & hearing them talk, matter of factly, about the sibilings who are not here (the reason why we're all together). I remember one friend's six-year-old daughter plunking herself down in the chair beside me and saying, "So, who do YOU have in heaven?" & then telling me all about her baby brother who had been stillborn a few years previously. Stuff like that gives me hope for the future, that stillbirth won't always be the taboo subject it is now.loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-25222281900126426602011-10-03T06:48:18.795-04:002011-10-03T06:48:18.795-04:00I told C once that Beezus and Thor had a sister wh...I told C once that Beezus and Thor had a sister who died and she had that same excited reaction. I hope it will always be that way. I want C (and all of these kids) to know that she isn't alone. Maybe R isn't either. I want her to realize that this doesn't have to be 100% sad 100% of the time either.<br /><br />I think you attributed Sam's line to T. We were just the ones eating all of your food and then staying past bedtime. I think T prattled on about French postmodernism a bit though.<br /><br />I have a ton more to say about this but I won't overstay my welcome in your comments section (too). Thank you for your hospitality and for everything you do to make this a multi-dimensional community where the joy finds its way in.TracyOChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16227348728165440844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-57473183026171088872011-10-03T05:13:16.603-04:002011-10-03T05:13:16.603-04:00Oh how I wish I could've been there, I'm s...Oh how I wish I could've been there, I'm sat here with tears streaming down my face at the beauty of your words and of your love Angie. I love my blogland babyloss friends and miss you all every day, even if lately my words have dried up somewhat.Jeanettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11423818333034603238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-27539928186342735782011-10-03T05:08:02.960-04:002011-10-03T05:08:02.960-04:00Oh wow, I so wish I could have been there too. Not...Oh wow, I so wish I could have been there too. Nothing better than meeting my ohana in RL. I tore up (with a smile) when I read the "We have a stillborn baby, too!" line.<br /><br />Wonderful post. Thank Angie... xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com