tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post539657397595245218..comments2024-02-11T03:39:05.836-05:00Comments on still life with circles: Storiesstill life angiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-78092452450342060552010-08-29T20:22:39.372-04:002010-08-29T20:22:39.372-04:00Glad to hear she is fine. How scary in the moment ...Glad to hear she is fine. How scary in the moment though. I often wonder what D will say about me. He won't have known me any other way, but I wonder if years from now he will think I am "such and such" because of Hannah's death. And what a bitch for them to have to deal with us. I often feel as sorry for our living children as I do for our dead ones.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-440847186671538442010-08-28T14:04:25.817-04:002010-08-28T14:04:25.817-04:00It is scary to see blood, esp on your children. It...It is scary to see blood, esp on your children. It's a nightmare to me.<br />((hugs))janishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326099151319592743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-33717399125068448772010-08-27T14:04:45.017-04:002010-08-27T14:04:45.017-04:00I'm glad Bea is fine. I'm glad you are fi...I'm glad Bea is fine. I'm glad you are fine.<br /><br />I think of this, too, sometimes, about how so many of "my" stories of Dot are really her stories. Even though the stories will be colored by the death of her brother, I'm hoping to come off well as a member of her supporting cast when she gets around to telling them for herself.ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06347057746449071812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-79057641608713480452010-08-27T12:00:40.140-04:002010-08-27T12:00:40.140-04:00oh my goodness, you poor guys. it really makes me ...oh my goodness, you poor guys. it really makes me wonder how non-loss mamas face these situations and if we all react the same way or if there really is an extra freak out level for loss mamas. <br /><br />so great that she is able to do such good processing and to tell her story - just like her mama. xoJennihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17682133967979817385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-60902646160533634192010-08-26T21:28:11.937-04:002010-08-26T21:28:11.937-04:00Wow, that's really scary.
I love how Bea nee...Wow, that's really scary. <br /><br />I love how Bea needed to process by 'telling' her friends.<br /><br />And I don't know what all this grief has made me, but hopefully more appreciative is one of them.Ya Chunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08816837461370619194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-40385884640693534782010-08-26T11:03:10.596-04:002010-08-26T11:03:10.596-04:00Oh how scary - poor Bea. I'm glad she's ok...Oh how scary - poor Bea. I'm glad she's okay and loved the image of her on the phone afterwards.<br /><br />Perhaps she'll say, "My sister, Lucy, died and my mother survived and kept on living and loving even though it was hard sometimes."Fireflyforeverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15290560217994184778noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-14703212618723856042010-08-26T09:56:34.052-04:002010-08-26T09:56:34.052-04:00Oh that must have been terrifying. Poor little Bea...Oh that must have been terrifying. Poor little Bea. I'm so glad she's fine. It's very sweet that she decided to 'phone' everyone and tell the tale of the nose bleed.<br /><br />I often wonder how Jessica will fill in that gap. All of this made my mother . . . I'm hoping for kind? But I really don't know which word will fill that hole. xCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-49773385646615542052010-08-26T09:39:48.522-04:002010-08-26T09:39:48.522-04:00I've had nosebleeds as an adult (woke up to on...I've had nosebleeds as an adult (woke up to one in the middle of the night most recently) and it feels exactly like itching. <br /><br />How scary! But I love that she called everyone she knew on her phone to tell them about it.HereWeGoAJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17457680345376171720noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-5436431198131911122010-08-26T05:38:04.116-04:002010-08-26T05:38:04.116-04:00Those stories.
I keep thinking that my 4 beautifu...Those stories.<br /><br />I keep thinking that my 4 beautiful, far too old for it to have passed them by in any shape or form, daughters will begin their child bearing from the minute they choose to try and conceive to the minute their baby makes it safely into the room, thinking "my baby brother died. No one could stop it from happening."<br /><br />It breaks me.Merryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06338478486624362745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-79367310021438847532010-08-26T05:05:55.874-04:002010-08-26T05:05:55.874-04:00This reminds me of a day last week when I wasn'...This reminds me of a day last week when I wasn't wearing my glasses and forgot that Millie had been eating a piece of cake with red icing. Not as traumatic as actual blood but, holy crap, I almost dropped over seeing her little hands just covered in red.<br /><br />Glad to hear Bea (and you) are ok.TracyOChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16227348728165440844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-7198607629560877962010-08-26T04:38:38.410-04:002010-08-26T04:38:38.410-04:00What a scare. I never had a nosebleed so it would ...What a scare. I never had a nosebleed so it would freak me out no end. I'm glad she's OK and has her first story to tell others...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com