tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post7471229133587632789..comments2024-02-11T03:39:05.836-05:00Comments on still life with circles: A Maybe Breakstill life angiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-32371362956839422312009-04-20T10:25:00.000-04:002009-04-20T10:25:00.000-04:00So sorry you got nasty comments. It doesn't make s...So sorry you got nasty comments. It doesn't make sense that people do that in this corner of the blogoverse. I think we have all been attacked at one time or another by a "stanger" to these blogs and it's always amazing how everyone else rallys to defend the attackee. I am not sure if your person was anonymous or a blogger you know, but no one is really anonymous around here! I just don't understand other people and why they would attack someone who is clearly in pain. It must make them feel better about themselves, as pathetic as that sounds. <br /><br />You could always go private and invite which readers you want. That might make you feel safer.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-91457424234007920422009-04-19T15:43:00.000-04:002009-04-19T15:43:00.000-04:00Ugh, I read a comment on another blog that was dir...Ugh, I read a comment on another blog that was directed to the writer and it shook me. It had nothing to do with me, but I wanted to take my blog down at that moment. I couldn't handle a response like the one I read. <br /><br />Like Lea, Om and all the others said, I hope you know that there are many of us supporting you and it is too bad that the ugly voices stand out the most.<br /><br />Deepest Peace to you.Shanti Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13659456047704596334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-4358573002546204992009-04-19T02:08:00.000-04:002009-04-19T02:08:00.000-04:00I am so sorry this happened, Angie.
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I re...I am so sorry this happened, Angie.<br />((hugs)) <br />I read back some on your posts and saw you posted about Jizo. I have one too, and wrote about it long time back on my blog. :-)<br /><br />Take care. xojanishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326099151319592743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-43558289791087920912009-04-18T18:28:00.000-04:002009-04-18T18:28:00.000-04:00I really hope you can stay Angie xoI really hope you can stay Angie xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-16369215418259022512009-04-18T16:08:00.000-04:002009-04-18T16:08:00.000-04:00I am so sorry this happened to you. I read your bl...I am so sorry this happened to you. I read your blog all the time, and very much appreciate your thoughts and insights. Please don't let this experience sour you, there is a lot of support for you. <br /><br />Love, <br />KerryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-1056387630299200402009-04-18T15:52:00.000-04:002009-04-18T15:52:00.000-04:00I'm sorry Angie.
There are so many ways to misint...I'm sorry Angie.<br /><br />There are so many ways to misinterpret our words your words, everyone's words and actions. I have encountered the "grief olympics" in blogland and (much worse) in person. It's not pretty and it leaves you cautious and defensive.<br /><br />This is your place and you get to say and do whatever you need.<br /><br />*sigh*<br /><br />I don't get it.<br /><br />Grief is grief is grief.<br /><br />Sending you love and a wish for peace.<br /><br />xxxBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-26845196537537066702009-04-18T15:09:00.000-04:002009-04-18T15:09:00.000-04:00WTF? That's all I can say. WTF.
I respect your d...WTF? That's all I can say. WTF. <br /><br />I respect your decision if you need to bow out of blogging for a bit but I wish it because it was something you wanted to do, not something you felt you needed to do because a place didn't feel safe anymore. Grr.mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-18273927904422394412009-04-18T13:21:00.000-04:002009-04-18T13:21:00.000-04:00Sigh. I am so disappointed that anyone would use ...Sigh. I am so disappointed that anyone would use our little corner of the blogosphere for anything other than support and love. Despite the ties that bind us as babylost mamas, we are all different people who fit into all kinds of different communities. We should be able to connect and disconnect in whatever way feels healing, that is what this space is all about. We are all in a bad place in our own ways, no matter whether our loss was last week or decades ago...but it is unfair to take that out on other people. I do hope you will not let this nasty experience make you feel unwelcome...you are a signficant part of this community just like anyone else. Love to you sweet Angie.ezra'smommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-28273415355869791972009-04-18T13:17:00.000-04:002009-04-18T13:17:00.000-04:00Angie... I am so sorry. How horrible. Please try...Angie... I am so sorry. How horrible. Please try to remember that there are so many people who love you and want to support you through your journey. It's unfortunate that it's the insensitive one's that stand out. Just one more crappy thing we don't need to deal with.<br />I will miss you..... <br /><br />xoLeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05569964047627902570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8013443217504323406.post-6010846503765670712009-04-18T12:19:00.000-04:002009-04-18T12:19:00.000-04:00Oh, geez. Angie, you are not alone. I encountered ...Oh, geez. Angie, you are not alone. I encountered some crap just a few weeks into my grief after losing E. I've never blogged about it and I doubt I ever will. Now that I typed that, I suppose that could appear to be a judgment about you because you merely mentioned the nasty crap you endured. I don't mean that at all. I am glad you shared with us that you've been attacked, that it hurt, and that you don't feel safe here. I never realized what a treacherous land mine blogging can be. It's difficult to fully express oneself without feeling the need to look over one's shoulder. I'm thinking about you right now and hoping you find some peace. I want you to feel safe here. I want you to express yourself. If it helps, remember that so many of us support and love you. I'm hoping you can feel our security blanket wrapped around you. <br />Peace, my friend.Mommy (You can call me OM)https://www.blogger.com/profile/07330090628350118582noreply@blogger.com