Nevermind.
I just got a call from my midwives group. They can no longer manage my care because the protein in my urine was elevated, and with one high BP reading and my loss that means I have to transfer my care to an OB. I guess they are telling me that I have pre-eclampsia. The midwife didn't say that. She just said she can't care for me anymore, and I sat there stunned as she said she'd love to know about my baby when I deliver.
Fuck.
Oh my god. Angie. I hope you're OK. Sending all my love. xxxx
ReplyDeleteOh, Angie. I'm so sorry! I can't believe she didn't offer to meet with you to make the transfer happen or something??? Please take care and we're sending you lots of supportive vibes! xoxox k-
ReplyDeleteAngie - I am sending you so very much strength and love.
ReplyDeleteAnd I wanna send you all sorts of pollyanna-ish, its going to be okay, you are going to have rockstar care under the OB, and they are going to give you super monitoring and little Thor is going to be protected and loved, and everything is going to be okay.
And I wanna just sit with you and say fuck, fuck, fuck over and over again that you are experiencing this rollercoaster.
All my love my darling. I'm here, you call me. Even if you just wanna swear.
Here for you Angie.
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Pretty much what everyone else said. And sending a huge dose of love with that xxx
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ReplyDeleteah feck it, anyway. What a bummer and a totally hopeless way to convey the message IMHO. Kara is so totally right!
ReplyDeleteHold tight, I'm sorry this is happening but you will find a really good OB and everything will be managed with their excellent care. You are a mama and even if you are classed high risk can be good and natural.
Lots of supportive vibes from me too and a big, massive hug
Fuck indeed.
ReplyDeleteHere if you want to chat/vent. But supporting by the sidelines if you want to lay low.
So sorry, Angie.
xoxo
I'm so sorry. That's a crummy way to get your care transferred.
ReplyDeleteYou may not have pre-e, at least not yet.
If I can answer questions about the pre-e, reply to this comment, I'd be happy to.
ReplyDeleteOh Angie, you don't need this shit. I remember being told the same thing when I was pregnant with my son Caelan. That was upsetting enough and it was before I lost Jordan. Can imagine it will be much more upsetting for you now. Just another drama you don't need.
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Oh, Angie, I am sorry. Thinking of you and sending lots of positive vibes.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you're going through this, Angie. I hope that, if it is pree, it's very mild, but I wish you didn't even have to think about this.
ReplyDeletesorry too...
ReplyDeleteand sending you love
xox
I was going to say Well Piss, but I suppose that's not completely appropriate here? Just a bit curt to cut you off like that (!) without explanation. Find some caring care, and know that a bunch of cyberspace has your back.
ReplyDeleteHang tough.
Wow, that really sucks. I am sorry.
ReplyDeleteI'll just keep my fingers crossed that you find the perfect OB who will be even better than those LOSERS.
I'm sorry. :( I hope you find a GREAT o/b!
ReplyDeleteDamn, that sucks. It's hard enough having the anxiety that comes with being pregnant after a loss, but to push you so far past your comfort zone is rude and moronic. I'm sorry she was abrubt and not kinder to you.
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Oh Angie...I am so sorry to hear this. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. xx
ReplyDeleteOh fuck. When do you see your OB? ASAP, I would hope.
ReplyDeleteAt the moment I am considered 'High Risk' so I am not even allowed to join the midwife practice programme. High Risk only because I had Alice and she died. Nothing wrong with me or this sweet baby. This is my next battle with the hospital. I think they put me as high risk as they think I am an hysterical nutter...
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oh, fuck.
ReplyDeletehere's hoping you the most fantastic OB on the planet, with medical knowledge and compassion all around, who gives you and your little boy absolutely everything you both need.
Oh geesh. I hope you are okay and that the OB can give you a little bit more information. x
ReplyDeleteOh Angie, I hope everything is okay and that you get more info soon.
ReplyDeleteDammit. I am so sorry.
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